STOP LYING TO YOURSELF! BREAKING NEGATIVE CYCLES AND LETTING GO OF THE LIES

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OVERVIEW
Lying to yourself or self-deception is something that occurs constantly in most people. We decide to lie to create a defense, and which leads us to want to protect ourselves from completely painful events. Also, sometimes, we lie to avoid or prevent hurting someone else. It is not a secret; most people at least one time in their life have told a lie or distorted the truth. It has the same intention, to avoid certain unwanted attitudes or feelings from others and you.
Lies are not good at all; this is the reason why we always decide to be honest. However and unfortunately, we still break the rules. The worst of all is that we usually lie about things that occur in our daily lives. Maybe you are wondering, what do we mean? A person lies in all ways… They usually lie to themselves about expressing true feelings. Another clear example is when they build something different from what they want. However, people are unconsciously building the contrary of what it should be.
All these lies, even how small and insignificant they may seem, often have serious consequences. In addition, this conscious or unconscious repetitive action can become a more common habit in your life. That is why we must stop lying to ourselves, we must break negative circles, and let go of lies to avoid unwanted attitudes.

WHAT IS SELF-DECEPTION?
There is an easy to interpret definition that Professor Cam Caldwell previously defined. This professor has researched identity, self-awareness, and self-deception for many years. He stated that deception is holding two conflicting ideas, but at that moment the person involved cannot recognize the conflict.
Caldwell explains that people who experience this type of deception are at risk of alienation. This means that people will lose all ability to connect with others. This occurs because their devotion to their vision of reality is much stronger compared to their interest in the truth.
LIES AS A HABIT
Many people do not know why they lie so much, even when it is not necessary, they decide to include fragments of lies. It seems they do not know how to express the truth in its entirety way. The purpose of people who lie in daily basis is to provide an escape from the difficult situation that they will face.
You can read more of this article in our July/August adult issue of ModelsMania

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